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ItzKatzTime
08-01-2007, 12:08 AM
:wave: Hi Everyone!

I usually keep all this to myself, but I'm overwhelmed and need your prayers and thoughts.:blush:

Over the past 15 years I've battled with Fibromyalgia and Chronic fatigue syndrome. I have tried many things....some worked and some were a waste of time and money. It's hard for people around you to understand, as one day you may be on top of the world and the next three days or more you can't move from the bed to the bathroom. :idontno: It is sometimes even harder to get a physician to believe you.:confused: Fortunately I have had some good Doctors.

Fibromyalgia is a burning painful feeling in your muscles. This makes it hard to pickup things and to move your limbs without a lot of pain. CFS is debillitating and the most frustrating! Usually comes with a cough you can't seem to get rid of, intense fatigue, low grade fever, need for sleep, sleep, sleep. BUT also includes insomnia....that's the double edge sword about CFS.

So it you don't see me very much at the Cafe you'll know I'm at home wishing I could greet you. I hate this because I love working at night ans seeing all my :wave: :wub: SoWal friends. I don't really want to change to lunch, but we'll see. My Doctor says I need to stop at 5:00 p.m. and start my evening of rest.:yikes: Okay everyone who knows how hard it is to stop at 5:00 in the afternoon raise your hand. :lolabove: I thought so!!!!

I :wub: :wub: :wub: you all!
ItzKatzTime
:wave: Kat:roll:

NoHall
08-01-2007, 12:31 AM
Wow...those are both so tough to treat. Praying for your health...

scottalderson
08-01-2007, 12:33 AM
my thoughts are with you for sure and will certainly send positive energy your way.
just a thought - there is a place called the tortoise clinic for chinese medecine in sandestin area. my best friend started it 14 years ago. he has since left but it is under the ownership of a master of acupunture and TCM or traditional chinese medecine. think about it.
and good luck with your illness

ItzKatzTime
08-01-2007, 03:07 AM
:bow: Thanks NoHall and Scott....as you can see I'm in the insomnia stage tonight. Sure wish I had a good movie.:popcorn:

SoWallers......please leave me a post even if you have nothing to say....just post a smilie. I could use anything right now!:blush:

:wub: Kat

florida girl
08-01-2007, 03:13 AM
I certainly feel for you, I suffer chronic pain myself from a back injury. Got to keep pressing on. Kate and Leopold is on tonight at 2am, wish I could stay up and watch. It's so romantic!

skippertoo
08-01-2007, 06:25 AM
Morning Kat.... Thinking of you :wub:

seaside2
08-01-2007, 06:33 AM
2:07 AM??? I guess you do have insomnia.

Life on this earth is hard, but remember that God loves you and ultimately holds the answers to all of our prayers. May He give you comfort and healing. Our daily prayers are with you.

iwishiwasthere
08-01-2007, 06:39 AM
Those are no funn!!! :yikes: My sister has both so I understand your frustration. You are so important to those around you, so rest and take care of yourself. Will be praying for you and sending good thoughts your way.:wave: :wave:

bennedy
08-01-2007, 07:03 AM
I will be praying for you.:D

Beachbummett
08-01-2007, 07:10 AM
prayers and hugs coming your way Kat!:wub: :wub: :wub: get better soon, we would missing seeing your beautiful smile at dinner!

Miss Kitty
08-01-2007, 07:47 AM
I hope you finally got some sleep. I like the acupuncture route...have you tried that? Hang in there...:wub: :wave: .

DD
08-01-2007, 07:53 AM
Kat, Praying for you and hoping you're back on your routine soon. :wub: :wave:

Cheering472
08-01-2007, 08:00 AM
Poor Kat. I never would have quessed from your other posts that you struggle with this. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. My pain management doctor tells me to try to live in the moment and enjoy the days you feel well. Visit here often, laughing helps.

kurt
08-01-2007, 09:12 AM
:wub: Kat

ThirtyAGal
08-01-2007, 09:21 AM
:wave: Kat, I am so sorry to hear of your suffering. One of my dearest friends also has fibromyalgia, and I have witnessed what she goes through. I am glad you have good physicians, and I agree with Miss Kitty that trying acupuncture might be a good idea. Keep the faith, and know that all of us wish you the best.

Dune-AHH
08-01-2007, 09:26 AM
I also vouch for The Tortoise Clinic's acupuncture & cleansing teas...this regimen brought my husband much cancer pain relief; extended & provided him an improved quality the last 18 months of his life.
Praying for you dear Kat! :wub:

sandflea
08-01-2007, 09:27 AM
Good Morning Kat! :wave: Hope you finally got some rest. My mother and neice have fibro and it's no fun. In my prayers too!

ktschris
08-01-2007, 09:31 AM
:wub: Sending prayers your way

Ocean Lover
08-01-2007, 09:33 AM
Praying for you gull!!!:wub: :wub: :wub: You are always so upbeat and happy. I KNOW you don't want to feel this way!!! :bang: I have a few family members on my dad's side that live with this awful disease. I am so sorry you have to deal with this too. It is very frustrating I know. And then having a daughter the same age as mine to keep up with! I'm sure it's not easy. I hope your feeling better today and were able to finally rest.

Mango
08-01-2007, 09:44 AM
Kat, I think D and K's always has you there in spirit even when you're not there, so take care of yourself. :wave:

John R
08-01-2007, 09:46 AM
Kat, hoping your feeling a little less sore this am.

ShallowsNole
08-01-2007, 09:48 AM
Kat,

I never would have guessed, as you are always so vibrant and upbeat, even in your posts. Sending hugs and prayers your way! :wub:

ozbeachmom
08-01-2007, 10:02 AM
:wub: hugs from kansas!

Beach Runner
08-01-2007, 10:09 AM
I know someone who has fibromyalgia. She has so many problems and is in such pain that she had to quit her job as a research biochemist. She takes a lot of pain meds, including oxycodone.:eek:

I am familiar with CFS -- was diagnosed after my daughter was born. I was so tired that I was almost dysfunctional. Thank goodness I'm a professor and only have to be on my feet a couple of hours a day. My doctor wanted me to quit my job, but we couldn't afford it -- we were building our dream home at the time. BTW the CFS sort of "went away.":idontno:

So I can't imagine having both ailments at once. I will be praying for you, Kat.

jdarg
08-01-2007, 10:26 AM
Hey Kat- let us know if there is anything you need- like errands run, etc. We are happy to help!

destinconcierge
08-01-2007, 01:40 PM
:wub: My prayers and thoughts for you :wub:

Johnrudy
08-01-2007, 01:47 PM
Hey,
I understand. I know what you are talking about. I am so sorry. It helps to just unload on somebody sometime. Just do what you can and try not to worry about what all you can't do. Your true friends and those closest to you will understand. ;-):wub::wave:

Take care of yourself ~

Allison

ItzKatzTime
08-01-2007, 02:59 PM
:wub: YOU ALL!

I just woke up and wandered over to the computer. What a happy surprise to see so many thoughts, prayers and smilies coming my way. I can't express enough my appreciation!!!!:bow:

I've been a member of SoWal for a year and 4 months. :clap: :clap: I didn't know about lurking :idontno: so I jumped right in to address "the buzz" about D&K's closing for renovation. AT first I was a little apprehensive (well, a lot):blush: ....but, I knew what we were doing was soooooo needed for our own life. I think our mistake was not letting everyone else in on it.:yikes:

We have had to get through the first six months of "dinner only" to get everything worked out. It has been the toughest time we've ever had in 20 years of being in the food industry. We wanted to keep our staff as they are so loyal and just feel like family at D&K's.....so that meant they had to jump right in and learn fine, excuse me, casual fine dining by experience. Our partner in crime "The Shadowman" :ninja: has nurtured them to be their best out front. Born and raised in Louisianna....also in Hospitality and Food Industry for over 20 years, he was the perfect one to teach them. It was hard for them at first....some customers were not impressed in the beginning.....but we just pushed on and so did they. Kelly, Chris and Cathy can now go just about anywhere they want to serve. I hope they will stay with us for as long as they feel that is where their heart is.

Now for lunch......adding lunch has been pure funn! I have never been hugged so much in the cafe and out on the streets when I see someone. You would have thought we had won the lotto and given everyone a million dollars. And, I think people are happier now.....as the lunch and dinner menu gives all the peeps options. Okay Okay that's enough about the cafe. Except we all thank you for the bottom of our hearts for sticking in there with us and for supporting D&K's. :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

:bow: I want to especially thank Kurt for giving us SoWal....it has been such a blessing to me. Doug never touches a computer, but he knows from all your posts that I print what's going on. Being in a closed kitchen he doesn't get to see all of you like I do......but he sure does hear about you!!!!!

Through SoWal I have made many dear friends and some kooky ones too that I know I will be in touch with most of my life. I can't go a day without jumping on to see what's going on with all of you....even if I don't have the time to post...:wub: my heart is with you.

Sooooo dear SoWallers having CFS and Fibromyalgia can be a blessing, as it gives me more time to be on SoWal....reading and posting! Thank you for all your suggestions....I have used the Tortoise Clinic off and on for over 10 years, tried some drugs....not for me (except a Lortab every now and then), Meditation is excellent for it, light weights, and sleep:sleeping: ....which helps the best! Scottalderson has suggested a new book I want to get...."Inflammation Nation". He's so cool:cool:......sent me a number reassuring personal messages. I love each and everyone of you!

AGAIN....THANK YOU ALL! I'M GOING TO ENJOY THIS RAIN SHOWER NOW.:clap:

ItzKatzTime:wave: :wub: :wub:

P.S. My wonderful father, Bay, was/is my role model for staying up and always having a positive attitude. He constantly reminded me growing up that things could always be worse....be grateful for what you have....and he was so right!!!!

ItzKatzTime
08-01-2007, 03:08 PM
Hey,
I understand. I know what you are talking about. I am so sorry. It helps to just unload on somebody sometime. Just do what you can and try not to worry about what all you can't do. Your true friends and those closest to you will understand. ;-):wub::wave:

Take care of yourself ~

Allison

Okay now I've read through your posts again and I'm crying. You all touch my heart so much!!!!!

Kat:wub:

Cheering472
08-01-2007, 03:09 PM
Kat you sweet wonderful girl, :wub: does this mean you feel like making us a key lime pie???

Hang in there. You are not alone, you're stuck with us. :wave:

SGB
08-01-2007, 03:29 PM
Hi Kat - So sorry to hear that you aren't feeling well. Please know that everyone is pulling for you. BTW - Your daughter looked beautiful last night. We had the pleasure of her company at dinner when we went out with friends. What a great group of beautiful girls we were surrounded with! (one of them being mine!)

Paula
08-01-2007, 07:57 PM
Definitely my thoughts and prayers are going your way, too! I, too, know people with fibromylasia and it indeed sounds like tough going. I hope someone comes up with a good treatment for you and others soon.

30A Skunkape
08-01-2007, 10:10 PM
We're pulling for you Kat:wave:

dunelover
08-01-2007, 11:18 PM
Kat---

My prayers are with you for strength, endurance, and healing. I admire the fact that you are willing to share your struggles w/ friends. I say so often that sharing is what deepens friendships, and I choose friends that share everything. I hope you have support in friends and family that will walk this road with you. I enjoy your posts and like you am up rather late at times, so keep posting, someone will be here supporting and encouraging you.

LightWorker
08-02-2007, 01:46 PM
Just wanted to say hello! I am new to the board. I am here if you ever need to talk. As one soul to another, my heart was touched by you.:cool:

ItzKatzTime
08-03-2007, 12:25 AM
:wub: :wub: Thanks again everyone....today has been really a rough one for me and I made the mistake of running to the cafe at 8:00 tonight to drop something off.

:pissed: I got so upset by a traffic domestic aurgument on Hotz Ave. between two totally drunk blondes and a husband/boyfriend :idontno: who would not let her in his car. Of course he's blocking one of the blondes SUV and is also blocking the whole street....no one can move and we are listening to some of the foulest mouthes I've heard in a long time. Both women were banging on his window screaming at him....then he open his door and when he gets out I just want to turn and run. He's tall, huge, looks like a body guard with glistening muscles shining in the restaurant glow. Do you think they back off....nope, she just keeps hurling insults and threats and F this and F that.

:yikes: But what shocked me most was right next to them I see 2 little girls about three and four years old standing there watching the whole thing with their family. Cute little girls with big bows on the sides of their bobbed hair cuts. Sitting a few yards a way are a group of young teens (12-14) laughing at the whole scene and I wonder to myself what is happening to this life we have here? And why is this family letting their two small children watch this?????

Finally he pulls over and lets one of the blondes get in....while the other blonde is still screaming and hitting the window with her fists. She sees this is not helping so she gets in her SUV and they both make a U Turn...yep right there on Hotz....and we all gave them room to do so....and off they sped. The SUV first and the "body guard" with other blonde right behind her......they race on past the cafe down DeFuniak to 30-A.

Do you know where your kids are? :yikes: :bang: :bang: :angry: :pissed:

Sorry to vent.....this just really makes me mad and sad!

McKellar
08-03-2007, 01:17 AM
Ms. Kat
I am honored to include you in my prayers. I can empathize with your situation. Two years ago I had a heart transplant. My new heart is great and is treating me well. However, seven years of heart failure and the medications took a toll on my body. Pain has become a way of life. I have peripheral neuropathy and have had an ongoing case of the shingles for the past eighteen months. I have developed several methods to deal with the pain that allow me to continue to enjoy a somewhat reasonable life. I would be happy to share with you if you are interested. Just send me a private message and I'll give you my e-mail. BTW, even with my curse (or blessing, depending on POV) I haven't missed a summer trip to the sugary sand since 1992 and I am currently nursing two black toe nails from a hike last week in the mountains of Colorado. I used to know a judge who would always say "PUSH ON" when things got rough. It was years later that I found out that his saying was an acronym.
Pray
Until
Something
Happens!

God bless and know that we are praying for you and HE listens!:D

P.S. I owe the Board a trip report from June, I'll try to post this weekend.

ItzKatzTime
08-03-2007, 01:40 AM
We're pulling for you Kat:wave:
thank you so much my fellow Saints fans. I :wub: you both!

Kat:wave:

ItzKatzTime
08-03-2007, 12:14 PM
:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: Thanks to all for your PMs....I can't type too well this morning so I will do something I never do....keep this short.:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

:wave: Kat

Miss Kitty
08-03-2007, 12:16 PM
:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: Thanks to all for your PMs....I can't type too well this morning so I will do something I never do....keep this short.:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

:wave: Kat

Short and sweet. :wub: :wave: Hang in there and one of my favorites...don't give up 5 minutes before the miracle.

seaside2
08-03-2007, 01:23 PM
[quote=ItzKatzTime;272697] He's tall, huge, looks like a body guard with glistening muscles shining in the restaurant glow.

I started to ask if you had his phone number, itty bitty needs a boy friend. But then I thought, "who needs one that gets involved in stuff like that?" Better off alone.:blush:

anyway, we continue to pray for your recovery. May you have a good day and a better night's reat.

whitesands
08-03-2007, 03:15 PM
Just adding my wishes that things improve soon. A friend of ours had fibro, so I have some small idea of the great pain that is involved. She thought it was related to stress, as her bouts were more severe under stress. After reading what you went through in the re-structuring/re-organizing of D&K's, it sounds to me as if you've had a lot of stress in the past several months.

I read in our local newspaper about a "Physiatrist". A medical dr. who specializes is rehabilitation and pain management medicine. I'd never heard of a Physiatrist before. Don't know if this type of specialist would be able to assist.

Keeping you in my thoughts and hoping for major improvement for you soon :wub:

Lynne

ItzKatzTime
08-03-2007, 03:29 PM
[QUOTE=seaside2;272788][quote=ItzKatzTime;272697] He's tall, huge, looks like a body guard with glistening muscles shining in the restaurant glow.

I started to ask if you had his phone number, itty bitty needs a boy friend. But then I thought, "who needs one that gets involved in stuff like that?" Better off alone.:blush:
:lolabove: :funn:

Ss2 this guy looked like he was on a "steroid rage"....but can't blame him with those 2 pounding on his new black caddy and screaming like there was no tomorrow! Scared me!!!!

:shock: Kat

Scooter
08-03-2007, 03:34 PM
Kat - our prayers are with you and hope you're feeling better real soon!:clap:

LightWorker
08-03-2007, 11:48 PM
Hi Kat Hope you are feeling better. :cool:

tistheseason
08-04-2007, 09:02 AM
Kat - I hope today is a better day for you. I love your posts and I would hate for anything to force you to "keep it short." I love the way you give us an insiders look at the restaurant business. And how you really seem to care about your customers. But most of all, I love how supportive you are to all of the other restaurants in the area.

take care of yourself and I hope you get some :sleeping:

cp
08-04-2007, 03:31 PM
Kate I hope you are getting some rest. I couldn't believe this .You sound so" bubbly".I so want to see you in Oct. when I'm down. I know you must have felt awful when the dr. told you to stop work at 5 pm. Well, you are in my prayers.Again, thanks for taking time to answer me the other week. .

Beachmom
08-04-2007, 04:29 PM
Hi Kat- :wave:
Hope today is a good one!
Stop at 5:00!? Yeah, right!!! (Prayers coming your way:wub: )

LightWorker
08-08-2007, 04:38 PM
Hello KAT
:wub: Sending You Love!!!!

ItzKatzTime
08-09-2007, 12:28 AM
Thanks everyone...I :wub: you soooo much. I try to get rest but it comes a little here and a little there. I have a lot on my mind these dayz and that doesn't help either. I really have a burden about children walking or riding their bikes alone. Every one that visits my daughter knows my rule NGWA....No Girl Walks Alone.

Thanks again....it helps me so very much to keep getting your posts.

Choose Love!;-)

Beachbummett
08-09-2007, 07:15 AM
Thanks everyone...I :wub: you soooo much. I try to get rest but it comes a little here and a little there. I have a lot on my mind these dayz and that doesn't help either. I really have a burden about children walking or riding their bikes alone. Every one that visits my daughter knows my rule NGWA....No Girl Walks Alone.

Thanks again....it helps me so very much to keep getting your posts.

Choose Love!;-)

I love your girl rule Kat! It's a grayt one. I, like you, can't understand why parents would ever let girls go anywhere alone. It is just not safe. Maybe we need to make a new logo for this and pass it out to all young girls on stickers, shirts, hats, jewelry, everything.

Hope you have a glorious day today and are feeling much better. I will try to get by this weekend to see you.:wub: :wave:

Cheering472
08-09-2007, 08:24 AM
Thanks everyone...I :wub: you soooo much. I try to get rest but it comes a little here and a little there. I have a lot on my mind these dayz and that doesn't help either. I really have a burden about children walking or riding their bikes alone. Every one that visits my daughter knows my rule NGWA....No Girl Walks Alone.

Thanks again....it helps me so very much to keep getting your posts.

Choose Love!;-)

Hi Kat. Good to see your post. You've been on my mind. I totally agree with your NGWA, keep reminding them. I pushed this with my daughter for years. God love her, I think I scared her because she became everyones mom. It stuck with her too. As she grew up, they had a "bar buddy" system. When Natalee Holloway went missing in Aruba, Beth said "See what can happen, she wasn't with her buddy". You are a smart mom Kat. :wave:

30A Skunkape
08-09-2007, 10:50 AM
Kat, it might ease you a bit to remember that the children in this country are very safe, even if they go places by themselves. It is hard to believe this based on the media coverage given to horrific abductions, online predators, school violence, etc, etc, but the fact is that there are very few children abducted in this country each year, and there isn't any trend that suggests the problem is increasing. The fact is, the overwhelming majority of 'kidnappings' are done by a non-custodial parent or family acquantaince, yet these incidents are statistically counted as kidnappings, and almost never are these children harmed. Since the FBI does not keep a count of 'kipnappings performed by total strangers', it is difficult to tease out how many of these occur a year, but it constitutes a tiny fraction of total kidnappings.

You would never guess this by watching the news, though. It seems that every night between O'Reilly, VanSustren and Grace, Dateline, etc. you would figure that predators are everywhere. This just isn't the case;so much time is given to the topic because they know concerned parents will tune in to get the daily dose of horror....if it bleeds, it leads, as they say in the business.

Am I saying you should throw safety to the wind? Of course not! Teach your kids to use common sense when they go anywhere;they are smarter than we give them credit for! I find it interesting that we accept the fact that kids are the most technically savvy when it comes to computers, but once they get online we strip this quality from them and fear that they are a few clicks away from being led to the mall by a pedophile who will abduct them!

I hope this helps a bit;I have found that the best tonic for our nerves might be to turn off the TV!

Ocean Lover
08-09-2007, 11:25 AM
IMHO, you can never be too careful. We get reports from school every so often ( they come home in their backpacks) of strangers in cars approaching kids on their way to or from school. Do you know how easy it would be to grab a child and throw them in the car? If there are 2 it would probably not happen! And it's not just girls. Very recently in Ohio not far from us a guy was arrested at a summer camp for molesting young boys. He had actually spent a week volunteering at the camp I send my kids to. He did have a previous record but his recent background check didn't show anything b/c his most recent conviction was 8 years ago in another state. I work in children's ministry at my church and our volunteers go through state and federal checks and we have a 2 adult rule. No one EVER should be left alone in a class or with a child at any time.

30A Skunkape
08-09-2007, 11:35 AM
I agree, parents should be careful, but nobody should be paralyzed with fear over their kids getting abducted. By the way, I remember bringing home notes from school warning of LSD pushers applying the drug to temporary Disney tatoos and giving it to local children who thus became 'hooked'...needless to say, this resulted in parental alarm, but as it turned out, it was an urban legend, no local kids were in danger nor were any given LSD;furthermore, LSD is not addictive. That was a good opportunity for parents to discuss drug abuse, but it instead resulted in hysteria.

Ocean Lover
08-09-2007, 11:44 AM
I agree, parents should be careful, but nobody should be paralyzed with fear over their kids getting abducted. By the way, I remember bringing home notes from school warning of LSD pushers applying the drug to temporary Disney tatoos and giving it to local children who thus became 'hooked'...needless to say, this resulted in parental alarm, but as it turned out, it was an urban legend, no local kids were in danger nor were any given LSD;furthermore, LSD is not addictive. That was a good opportunity for parents to discuss drug abuse, but it instead resulted in hysteria.

Definetly, that is no way to live.

sandflea
08-09-2007, 04:27 PM
I agree that it shouldn't paralyze you, but it suuuuuuure isn't as safe as it was when I was a kid. I don't have any kids yet but I can see where'd I'd be over protective. Too many freaks out there.

30A Skunkape
08-09-2007, 05:12 PM
I agree that it shouldn't paralyze you, but it suuuuuuure isn't as safe as it was when I was a kid. I don't have any kids yet but I can see where'd I'd be over protective. Too many freaks out there.

It isn't?
http://www.ojp.gov/bjs/glance/tables/vagetab.htm

sandflea
08-09-2007, 05:25 PM
It isn't?
http://www.ojp.gov/bjs/glance/tables/vagetab.htm

Nothing happened to me :D

30A Skunkape
08-09-2007, 05:35 PM
Nothing happened to me :D
Bingo. I can't think of a better time or place to be a child than NOW and HERE!:biggrin:

Miss Kitty
08-09-2007, 07:00 PM
I agree, parents should be careful, but nobody should be paralyzed with fear over their kids getting abducted. By the way, I remember bringing home notes from school warning of LSD pushers applying the drug to temporary Disney tatoos and giving it to local children who thus became 'hooked'...needless to say, this resulted in parental alarm, but as it turned out, it was an urban legend, no local kids were in danger nor were any given LSD;furthermore, LSD is not addictive. That was a good opportunity for parents to discuss drug abuse, but it instead resulted in hysteria.

Of course, in Dallas they mix heroin with Tylenol Cold and call it Cheese. It's sold as a cheap fun thrill and it kills. It has really devastated some of the jr. high's in Dallas.

Johnrudy
08-09-2007, 07:33 PM
Of course, in Dallas they mix heroin with Tylenol Cold and call it Cheese. It's sold as a cheap fun thrill and it kills. It has really devastated some of the jr. high's in Dallas.
I read an article about this cheese! So strange that it's primarily in Dallas.

Ocean Lover
08-10-2007, 08:16 AM
Of course, in Dallas they mix heroin with Tylenol Cold and call it Cheese. It's sold as a cheap fun thrill and it kills. It has really devastated some of the jr. high's in Dallas.


:eek: I'm glad they are trying to stop this from spreading to other areas. I still want to buy Tylenol Cold over the counter. Of course that is not the only reason. Keeping kids safe is still #1.
Drug czar lauds Dallas' fight against 'cheese'

Federal official visits area, meets with local task force


12:00 AM CDT on Thursday, August 2, 2007
By TAWNELL D. HOBBS / The Dallas Morning News
tdhobbs@dallasnews.com

President Bush's drug czar praised Dallas leaders Wednesday for fighting "cheese" heroin use among youths – a move he said is vital to preventing its spread to other parts of the country.

"That's one of the reasons we're trying to watch this closely," John Walters, director of the White House Office of National Drug Control Policy, said during a news conference Wednesday at Dallas Independent School District headquarters.

Mr. Walters spoke after receiving a briefing from the Cheese Heroin Task Force. DISD Superintendent Michael Hinojosa, Dallas County District Attorney Craig Watkins and some parents whose children died of cheese were among those who attended the briefing, which was closed to the public.

Mr. Walters said the community's effort to come together to fight cheese is impressive. The mix of black tar heroin and crushed nighttime cold tablets has been blamed for the deaths of 23 area teens since January 2005.

"I came here to hear from those who are working against this terrible phenomenon," Mr. Walters said.

Cheese surfaced in five northwest Dallas schools this past school year. The drug, which sells for as little as $2 a hit, has greatly concerned health-care providers, law enforcement and school district officials because of its accessibility and addictiveness. It has been known to be used by kids as young as 10.

Mr. Walters said he is working with Sen. John Cornyn, R-Texas, to add money to a national media campaign to address cheese.

Mr. Walters also announced Wednesday that six Texas school districts, including Ennis, will receive new federal grants, totaling $1.67 million, to help fund random student drug testing. He said such testing could be used as a public health tool to deter students from using illegal drugs and help with early intervention.

The Ennis district, about 40 miles south of Dallas, will receive $148,566 over three years. Other districts receiving grant money are Bloomington, Friendswood, Ganado, La Porte and Mission Consolidated school district.

Ennis Superintendent Eddie Dunn said his school board recently voted to do random drug testing.

"It seems to me as adults we should be champions of hope; illegal drugs kill hope, and we can't let that happen," Dr. Dunn said during the news conference.

Mr. Walters acknowledged that random drug testing is controversial.

Some opponents have said it violates students' civil rights. But Mr. Walters said students who test positive in random tests cannot be punished.

The Dallas school district is using a federal grant for a voluntary drug testing program that requires parental permission. The students don't know when they will be tested.

Linda Yater, DISD's executive director for student services, said that 12,580 students in sixth grade and up were tested last year, and that 97 percent were drug-free.

The No. 1 drug students tested positive for was marijuana, followed by methamphetamine and then heroin.

Michelle Hemm, director at Phoenix Academy of Dallas, a 32-bed private, residential treatment center, said she hopes the attention to cheese will help get funding for residential care for people hooked on the drug.

"I'm hopeful that ... the powers that be will look at Dallas," she said. "The fact that people have rallied behind this is great."

Ocean breeze
08-10-2007, 09:49 AM
Here is one of the best herb books:

http://www.mothernature.com/Library/Bookshelf/Books/41/33.cfm

See Contents in left column.

For inflammation, the author (James Duke PhD) recommends chamomile tea, licorice root (in moderation), etc.

A good online source of bulk organic herbs is Mountain Rose Herbs (WA).

Take care... You seem to be good at that.
And God bless you! Amen.

Ocean breeze
08-10-2007, 10:13 AM
I just saw this Google Ad beside the herb book:

http://coconutdiet.com/cfsfibro.htm (http://coconutdiet.com/cfsfibro.htm)


A source of Virgin Coconut Oil:

http://www.tropicaltraditions.com/coconutoil4energy.htm (http://www.tropicaltraditions.com/coconutoil4energy.htm)

Ocean breeze
08-10-2007, 10:21 AM
Try again:

http://www.tropicaltraditions.com/virgin_coconut_oil.htm (http://www.tropicaltraditions.com/virgin_coconut_oil.htm)

LightWorker
08-15-2007, 01:32 AM
Sending Love



:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

Ocean breeze
08-15-2007, 01:44 AM
Amen!

Miss Kitty
08-15-2007, 08:26 AM
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

DD
08-15-2007, 08:30 AM
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

:(

Cheering472
08-15-2007, 10:14 AM
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

Oh no :cry:

kathydwells
08-15-2007, 10:16 AM
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

So sorry. :cry:

LightWorker
08-15-2007, 12:23 PM
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(



Sending you Peace,and all your friends are here for you. If you need anything just meow!! :blush:

ItzKatzTime
08-15-2007, 05:28 PM
Miss Kitty I wub you!:wub: I know it's a sad time, but I'm going to think happy thoughts for you.

;-) Kat

ItzKatzTime
08-15-2007, 05:36 PM
Your tar looks like and Angel Dog. :wub: I love it KathyD!:clap::wave:

Miss Kitty
08-15-2007, 06:10 PM
Miss Kitty I wub you!:wub: I know it's a sad time, but I'm going to think happy thoughts for you.

;-) Kat

Thank you Kat!!!! It was an old friend from when sarafunn was in elementary school. We had worked on fund raising together. She was good at keeping up and called every once in a while to catch up even though our girls went on to other schools. Apparently, she had a bad stroke a few years ago (I though she had moved up to her home in MI, which she adored) :( and never really got better. That led to more small strokes and she finally succumbed to a heart attack...she had just turned 55. The blessing...her daughter had married and she told me she was expecting :wub: !!! I hugged her father and told him how happy I was about him being a grandfather! He is over the moon and can't wait to spoil it rotten! ;-) I have had two of these funerals (friends) this summer and it is just so alarming and sad.

ItzKatzTime
08-15-2007, 06:37 PM
Thank you Kat!!!! It was an old friend from when sarafunn was in elementary school. We had worked on fund raising together. She was good at keeping up and called every once in a while to catch up even though our girls went on to other schools. Apparently, she had a bad stroke a few years ago (I though she had moved up to her home in MI, which she adored) :( and never really got better. That led to more small strokes and she finally succumbed to a heart attack...she had just turned 55. The blessing...her daughter had married and she told me she was expecting :wub: !!! I hugged her father and told him how happy I was about him being a grandfather! He is over the moon and can't wait to spoil it rotten! ;-) I have had two of these funerals (friends) this summer and it is just so alarming and sad.

:welcome: Miss Kitty you are in my prayer closet with me. I keep adding pictures and items that I didn't take a picture of...too personal, but here's a little bit of it! It helps me just to know it's there....although I have slept in there.:blush:

seacrestkristi
08-15-2007, 09:47 PM
Prayers to Kat and Kitty and your friends' families too. :wub:

ItzKatzTime
08-17-2007, 09:25 PM
Prayers to Kat and Kitty and your friends' families too. :wub:

:clap: :clap: Thank you seacrestkristi....please keep on praying! Your words mean so much.

:wub: kat

Tootsie
08-20-2007, 03:29 PM
:wave: hi kat - just sending good thoughts your way. hope you are feeling better these days... take care of yourself!:wub:

ItzKatzTime
08-25-2007, 10:22 PM
My dear friends....I need your prayers more then ever now. The winds are blowing in a big change for me.......and I need to be stronger then I've ever been before. Today I have cried the whole day....and I think I will cry a lot more. I will be off the board for a while, but please remember me. I love you all.

:wub: Kat

Ocean Lover
08-25-2007, 10:31 PM
My dear friends....I need your prayers more then ever now. The winds are blowing in a big change for me.......and I need to be stronger then I've ever been before. Today I have cried the whole day....and I think I will cry a lot more. I will be off the board for a while, but please remember me. I love you all.

:wub: Kat

I'm sorry for whatever you're going through and I will be praying for you Kat.:wub:

kathydwells
08-25-2007, 10:33 PM
I'm sorry for whatever you're going through and I will be praying for you Kat.:wub:

Me too, Kat. I hope everything will be ok for you.

Beach Runner
08-25-2007, 10:33 PM
I do believe in the power of prayer. I truly believe that our collective prayers can make a difference for you. I know that they did at a critical time in my life when I was hospitalized for two months to avoid a miscarriage. Take care, gull.

Johnrudy
08-26-2007, 12:21 AM
Be strong. Please take care of yourself. :wub:

Beachmom
08-26-2007, 12:29 AM
Hi Kat-
We are all here for you and the prayers are there, but if there is anything else we can do...PLEASE just ask!!! We :wub: you!
Al

Beach Runner
08-26-2007, 12:29 AM
Be strong. Please take care of yourself. :wub:
Hey, gull! R U OK, with the flooding and all up there?

Johnrudy
08-26-2007, 12:42 AM
Hey, gull! R U OK, with the flooding and all up there?
We are fine. Our biggest problem was being w/o cable/internet!! I thought I was gonna die. :blush: Lots of old trees down, many homes & businesses w/o power, but we're fine. I'm waiting to hear from Lindatat. They were hit much harder.
Thanks for asking.

LightWorker
08-26-2007, 01:09 AM
Kat....I know you can feel all the love for you on this thread. If I can help you in any way please let me know.

Love and Peace :wub:

DD
08-26-2007, 02:28 AM
Kat--sending prayers your way. :wub:

ItzKatzTime
08-27-2007, 01:55 PM
I AM back......I had a couple of days to recoup....think, and write. I want to thank all my SoWal friends for their sweet PMs and posts. :wub:

Something jdarg wrote me made me realize pulling away was not the answer.
She said I needed to stay on the board...where people love me and are worried. Then of course Lightworker said that she knew I could feel the love
for me on this thread. And they are both right!!!!

Thank you all....gotta run to the cafe.

:bow: Kat:wub: :wub: :bow:

P.S. Minnie IM'd me asking if I had won the $315 million lotto and had run away!:funn:

LightWorker
08-29-2007, 01:39 AM
Kat...when you read this, take a deep breath ....then let it out ....and feel peace.

L:wub: O:wub: V:wub: E:wub:

Paula
08-29-2007, 04:55 AM
Kat: Whatever it is, hang in there (and here on the board) and take care of yourself. You know that you're getting lots of prayers! :wub:

ItzKatzTime
08-31-2007, 09:58 PM
Kat: Whatever it is, hang in there (and here on the board) and take care of yourself. You know that you're getting lots of prayers! :wub:

:wave: Paula....thank you! I feel better just getting back to the board, reading, posting....but mostly a lot of smiling and down right laughing.:floor: :funn: :rolling:

I AM, thanks to LightWorker:wub: , remembering to take big breaths....deep breathing exercises. I used to do that when I went to the Tortoise Clinic....but the last 2 years have been a whirlwind of doing doing doing :banging: ....and not being. Why? :confused: I let the world take me away...instead of Calgon!

Right this moment I AM being! I AM also seeing the culmination of the prayers and love of many!:bow:

I :wub: SoWal peeps!!!! And the Saints!:blush:

InletBchDweller
08-31-2007, 10:16 PM
(((((((HUGS))))))) your way!!!!

:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

savvytangerine
08-31-2007, 10:18 PM
:wave: Paula....thank you! I feel better just getting back to the board, reading, posting....but mostly a lot of smiling and down right laughing.:floor: :funn: :rolling:


Hi Kat! Glad you are feeling better. :wub:

I think we all (especially the locals- no offense) forget to do this ----
:chill: :cool: I think I just made some weekend plans. :biggrin:

Paula
08-31-2007, 10:52 PM
Kat: You definitely have lots of support from the locals and from those of us who are far away but near in spirit (I'm about 1000 miles away from SoWal but I'm there in spirit)!

Minnie
08-31-2007, 11:16 PM
Lots of hugs and prayers for a very special person. :wub:

scottalderson
09-01-2007, 12:38 AM
thinking of you

:chill:

NoHall
09-01-2007, 12:42 AM
thinking of you

:chill:

What he said!

havinadaydream
09-01-2007, 12:55 AM
I've worked with many people who suffer from fibromyalgia. I know it's tough and you are in my prayers every night. I know you will be fine! Just keep having positive thoughts!!

ItzKatzTime
09-01-2007, 12:31 PM
I :wub: you all. What would I do without SoWal? :cry: Cry a lot!!!!!

I can't begin to tell you how much your posts have helped me....I struggle everyday, but I AM okay when I read, post and take deep breaths.:clap:

:blush: In a few days I will share some things that are weighing heavy on my heart.....and then, I will need ya'll more then I have ever needed anyone.:blush:

Bless you all!!!!! Your SoWal friend:wub: ~Kat

Beachmom
09-01-2007, 12:42 PM
:wub: Kat!!

Minnie
09-01-2007, 01:04 PM
One of my favorite inspiration prayers

Make Me Brave for Life

God, make me brave for life: oh, braver than this.
Let me straighten after pain, as a tree straightens after the rain,
Shining and lovely again.
God, make me brave for life; much braver than this.
As the blown grass lifts, let me rise
From sorrow with quiet eyes,
Knowing Thy way is wise.
God, make me brave, life brings
Such blinding things.
Help me to keep my sight;
Help me to see aright
That out of dark comes light.

LightWorker
09-01-2007, 02:40 PM
Kat ....This reminded me of you.

:wub:

http://www.themiracletimes.com/IDP/Images/International_Day_of_Peace.jpg

Click here: International Day of Peace 2007 - UN Peace Day (http://www.themiracletimes.com/IDP/International_Day_of_Peace.htm)

ItzKatzTime
09-02-2007, 07:03 PM
Kat ....This reminded me of you.

:wub:

http://www.themiracletimes.com/IDP/Images/International_Day_of_Peace.jpg

Click here: International Day of Peace 2007 - UN Peace Day (http://www.themiracletimes.com/IDP/International_Day_of_Peace.htm)

:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :blush:

ItzKatzTime
09-03-2007, 11:09 PM
One of my favorite inspiration prayers


God, make me brave, life brings
Such blinding things.
Help me to keep my sight;
Help me to see aright
That out of dark comes light.


Thank you Minnie this is so right on target.....my asking for prayer has brought me such inspiration and strength. The future seems like a long dark night.....but I know the light will shine through in the morning!

:wub: Kat

LightWorker
09-03-2007, 11:43 PM
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/16/16_8_101.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxmk762YYUS) Come forth into the light of things, let nature be your teacher.
William Wordsworth

ItzKatzTime
09-06-2007, 02:14 AM
:idontno: I don't know what else to do. Please help by praying for Doug. I will give more info tomorrow. Please I cannot do this alone we must uplift his name in prayer. He is scheduled for a very serious surgery Tuesday September 11th! Thank you my friends:blush: :wub:

30A Skunkape
09-06-2007, 06:50 AM
We are pulling for you both!

Beachbummett
09-06-2007, 06:57 AM
Lots of prayers and love coming your way Kat! :wub: :wub: :wub:

Let us know if there is anything we can do.

Miss Kitty
09-06-2007, 08:22 AM
God Speed to you and your entire family, Kat. You are not alone. :wub:

Rita
09-06-2007, 08:56 AM
More prayers coming from Texas! :wub: Be strong Kat!

.

Ocean Lover
09-06-2007, 09:08 AM
Many prayers coming from the North Kat!!!:wub:

Cheering472
09-06-2007, 09:25 AM
Prayers and hugs Kat. We are with you even when you feel alone.

Paula
09-06-2007, 10:28 AM
You definitely have a lot going on right now, Kat, and your SoWal friends will support you and Doug for sure, especially with the prayers. Our hearts are with you and Doug during this tough time.

ThirtyAGal
09-06-2007, 10:44 AM
:wub: God Bless you and Doug, Kat. Prayers are coming from Tennessee.

LightWorker
09-06-2007, 12:00 PM
We are pulling for you both!

Lots of prayers and love coming your way Kat! :wub: :wub: :wub:

Let us know if there is anything we can do.

God Speed to you and your entire family, Kat. You are not alone. :wub:

More prayers coming from Texas! :wub: Be strong Kat!

.

Many prayers coming from the North Kat!!!:wub:

Prayers and hugs Kat. We are with you even when you feel alone.

You definitely have a lot going on right now, Kat, and your SoWal friends will support you and Doug for sure, especially with the prayers. Our hearts are with you and Doug during this tough time.

:wub: God Bless you and Doug, Kat. Prayers are coming from Tennessee.



We all love you Kat........and know we are all here any time you need us.:wub:

skippertoo
09-06-2007, 12:03 PM
Thinking and praying for you both:wub:

tistheseason
09-06-2007, 12:25 PM
You definitely have my prayers, support and anything else you could possibly need! Hang in there.

dbuck
09-06-2007, 12:51 PM
Will keep you and Doug in my prayers.

ShallowsNole
09-06-2007, 01:05 PM
Kat, thinking and praying for Doug, you and Kalie too. I hope all will turn out okay. {{hugs}}

gotothebeachmom
09-06-2007, 01:11 PM
Kat,

I will keep you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. :wub:

LightWorker
09-06-2007, 03:41 PM
Thinking and praying for you both:wub:

You definitely have my prayers, support and anything else you could possibly need! Hang in there.

Will keep you and Doug in my prayers.

Kat, thinking and praying for Doug, you and Kalie too. I hope all will turn out okay. {{hugs}}

Kat,

I will keep you and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. :wub:


Can you feel the love? I hope so. :wub:

DD
09-06-2007, 10:01 PM
Sending prayers up.

Minnie
09-06-2007, 10:08 PM
Prayers for Doug and Kat and the entire family. :wub:

The Red Hare
09-06-2007, 10:15 PM
My mother, Christine, has fibromyalgia and we have A LOT of movies...

and popcorn.

We get insomnia quite a bit, too. Give a shout and we'll deliver!

You are not alone. http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://generallyawesome.com/photos/funny/funny-photos.jpg&imgrefurl=http://generallyawesome.com/photos/funny/funny-photos.php&h=300&w=450&sz=31&tbnid=AOyAWOUrNU5T0M:&tbnh=85&tbnw=127&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dfunny%2Bpictures%26um%3D1&start=1&sa=X&oi=images&ct=image&cd=1

ItzKatzTime
09-07-2007, 05:10 PM
My mother, Christine, has fibromyalgia and we have A LOT of movies...

and popcorn.

We get insomnia quite a bit, too. Give a shout and we'll deliver!

You are not alone. http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://generallyawesome.com/photos/funny/funny-photos.jpg&imgrefurl=http://generallyawesome.com/photos/funny/funny-photos.php&h=300&w=450&sz=31&tbnid=AOyAWOUrNU5T0M:&tbnh=85&tbnw=127&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dfunny%2Bpictures%26um%3D1&start=1&sa=X&oi=images&ct=image&cd=1

Hmmmmm interesting .....but not sure about those pictures:idontno: especially the inspirational ones.:confused:

Do you own a video shop?

seacrestkristi
09-07-2007, 09:20 PM
That pix of you and Doug is so sweet. :wub: Prayers of comfort, rest, calmness, clarity, strength and plenty of health are flyin' you and Doug's way right now and through his surgery and recovery next week. :wub: :wub: :wub:

ItzKatzTime
09-07-2007, 09:33 PM
Let me begin by saying I Love You All and Thank You for all your kind words, support, and prayers!

My husband DOUG!

I guess you can say that the two stone angels from cemetary's in New Orleans are about as close to representing Doug and I as you can get. He wants nothing said....putting me in a position to carry much on my own. Too much! Which has left me to express my feelings through the pain of Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Sybdrome. Fortunately I don't keep it all in and have had your help to get through some of this.

To make a long story short Doug has known for a long time that he needed this operation which is now scheduled for Tuesday the 11th at Fort Walton Medical Center. Because it is a pre-exhisting problem you can just imagine the costs that we are having to deal with......after a long renovation and a cafe closed for 8 months it has caused him tremendous stress. He was to have this operation in June, then July, then again in August....but he re-scheduled for after Labor Day. Why? So he could train and re-train our wonderful chef John Solomon and Sous Chef Robert. They have been cooking almost all the food that has been served since July. If you know Doug he has NEVER left any of our restaurants in another person's hands.

This is a big step for Doug. He not only has to worry about his own health, but me and Kalie, and a restaurant full of loyal staff. I don't think I'm saying anything out of line....these are the normal things that most men would worry about. So maybe he won't get too upset at me for letting this out.

This is the second time that Doug has been operated on for spinal stenosis. Spinal stenosis is where the cusion between two discs enlarges and presses against the spinal cord causing muscle deteriation...for Doug it has been the right side....arm, hand, leg, foot. Symptoms are tingling in extremities, paralysis, numbness, extreme muscle loss, nausea, insomnia, irritation, short fuse, loss of memory. At this time Doug's spinal cord is 95% compressed, leaving only 5% for anything to flow through.

The first operation was done by a wonderful Dr. Daniel Choy in New York City 2 1/2 years ago. He used a laser on the cervical spine and lumbar. He told Doug he would have to change his life style, get re-habilitation, could not fish for anything over 5-10 pounds (brim and trout). For almost a year Doug was like a new man.....BUT he just could not change his life style. Soooo now he is much worse and considered disabled. In fact, he could easily be on disability right now. He can barely walk and yet he is down at the cafe right this moment.

His love for the kitchen and running it to "His" perfection is both wonderful and diastrous. If he does not let go he will be disabled. In June we made the decision to train new chefs....we looked for a long time until we found the ones that could "get it"! Of course prayer played a hugh part in this! Now, we must pray that Doug lets go and "gets it"!!!!

Doug will have a bone grafted between C5-7 with a titanium plate screwed in to give his spine stability and keep his spinal cord from ever being compressed again. This procedure will take the pressure off his spinal cord causing the above symptoms, BUT his Doctor has said he may never get his strength back because of damaged nerve endings.

Dr. Dale K. Johns will go through the front of the throat and will have to be very careful for nerves that have already been damaged. His windpipe and esophagus have to be moved to each side so he can get to the spinal cord....this will cause a really sore throat as far as breathing and eating goes. Not to mention the recovery of the operation itself.

So my SoWal friends that's about it in a nut shell. I just ask that you pray for our family, our staff, and Doug. We have a long road ahead of us. We, at the cafe, are committed to see it work smoothly and with a calm spirit amongst us all. D&K's is committed to you! I AM committed to you! There is no room for fear....only love.

Bless you all!:wub: Doug & Kat

NoHall
09-07-2007, 09:35 PM
Wow--what a huge burden for you to bear. Grace and peace to you both.

Ocean Lover
09-07-2007, 10:07 PM
I was going to PM you and started writing it and decided I should share my idea with everyone.

Thanks for sharing your burden with us...you don't have to carry it all on your own. I promise to pray for you, Doug and Kalie every day. I'm going to print out the picture of the two of you and tape it to the side of my monitor. Everytime I see it I'll remember to pray. http://www.soulcysters.net/images/smilies/i_praying.gif
:wub: you!!!! Hang in there!!!

Miss Kitty
09-07-2007, 10:16 PM
I was going to PM you and started writing it and decided I should share my idea with everyone.

Thanks for sharing your burden with us...you don't have to carry it all on your own. I promise to pray for you, Doug and Kalie every day. I'm going to print out the picture of the two of you and tape it to the side of my monitor. Everytime I see it I'll remember to pray. http://www.soulcysters.net/images/smilies/i_praying.gif
:wub: you!!!! Hang in there!!!

:wub: ...God love you OL! That is the sweetest thing I have read all day!

savvytangerine
09-07-2007, 11:04 PM
I'm very sorry for what you and your's are going through Kat. I know that any type of illness takes a toll on the whole family -- and my heart is with each of you. :wub: :wave:

http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_1_122.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxmk762YYUS)

dunelover
09-07-2007, 11:06 PM
There is no room for fear....only love.

Bless you all!:wub: Doug & Kat
Kat & Doug--Know that you will all be in my prayers. I will pray for a complete success, guidance of the surgeons hands and ability on the part of the nursing staff. I will pray that the restaurant will run smoothly during Dougs absence. I will pray that you, Kat, have the strength and stamina to run the family and support your husband thru this time. I am glad you have a place to share, and pray that you have many friends to be at your side as well.

Since you quoted the above, I thought you might appreciate this verse. It is 1 John 4:18-19 "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because He first loved us."

Know that there are many prayers and hugs coming your way.:wub:

Rita
09-07-2007, 11:21 PM
I was going to PM you and started writing it and decided I should share my idea with everyone.

Thanks for sharing your burden with us...you don't have to carry it all on your own. I promise to pray for you, Doug and Kalie every day. I'm going to print out the picture of the two of you and tape it to the side of my monitor. Everytime I see it I'll remember to pray. http://www.soulcysters.net/images/smilies/i_praying.gif
:wub: you!!!! Hang in there!!!

Wow! :wub: Thoughtful idea.

.

ItzKatzTime
09-07-2007, 11:33 PM
This is why I share....because of people like all of you! My eyes are filled with tears of joy, love, and blessings. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

I believe that things happen for a reason....and lately prayer has been the focus in my life. I've always prayed, in fact have taught spiritual classes on prayer....now my own faith in prayer is being tested. My trust in humanity is being brought to the top of my concerns....and I AM not left wanting!

:wub: Kat

Bob
09-07-2007, 11:39 PM
My mother has had this condition and battled back. You can have a good outcome. Good things are very possible with skilled care.

Johnrudy
09-07-2007, 11:47 PM
My mother has had this condition and battled back. You can have a good outcome. Good things are very possible with skilled care.
Yes, I have known 2 people just in the past year who had this exact same kind of surgery. One was in their 30's the other was 60-ish. They're fine to this day!!! :clap::clap:

I'll be thinking of you both. :wub::wub:

LightWorker
09-08-2007, 12:22 AM
You are a strong woman. I know because it takes one to know one. I am smiling as I read many of your friends posts. Please reach out if you need to talk or vent or anything. Know that Doug will be in many prayers, and we want to be here to help you. I love you and I am here anytime.

:wub: :wub: :wub:

ItzKatzTime
09-08-2007, 12:25 AM
My mother has had this condition and battled back. You can have a good outcome. Good things are very possible with skilled care.

Yes, I have known 2 people just in the past year who had this exact same kind of surgery. One was in their 30's the other was 60-ish. They're fine to this day!!! :clap::clap:

I'll be thinking of you both. :wub::wub:

YeS! This is where we were 3 years ago...he had a great prognosis. But, because he has let it slide the hope is that he will come out of this with no more damage then he has right now with muscle and nerve damage. If he wasn't so hard headed (excuse my sharing something he would probably knock me over the head for):whack:
I would feel much better! And, if you know anything about Doug you know how hard headed he is. I remember 10 years ago Dave (Bud & Alley's) telling Doug to let go, train people in the kitchen. Get a life....okay, now he will probably ban me from the board. :banned: I better stop!

Thanks Bob and JohnRudy!!!!!:wub: :wave:

TooFarTampa
09-08-2007, 12:25 AM
Even people you've never met are rooting for you and Doug. :wave: You're in my prayers too.

ItzKatzTime
09-08-2007, 12:55 AM
Even people you've never met are rooting for you and Doug. :wave: You're in my prayers too.

TFT....you're the ones I'm counting on!;-)
Thank you!
:wub: Kat

Beach Crazy
09-08-2007, 11:34 AM
Good Lord. I have been so out of the loop for the past few months, I had no idea what this thread was about.:( I'm reminded of just how blessed I truly am and will ask forgiveness for being so caught up in my own little world. I'm sorry never to have met you and your family Kat, but you seem like such precious people. We are planning on a trip down next August and will be bringing a couple with us this time. I would like to stay in Grayton Beach this time, I'll have to start making contact with folks.

We've had a few medical things go on in the past few years but not as severe. A few years ago Mr. BC was in thyroid failure and I believe it has a lot to do with all the problems. A rheumetologist told my husband that the only diagnosis she could make was fibromyalgia. Whatever. He seems to have a combination of yours and Doug's symptoms. He has tingling down his arm, insomnia, jerking while he tries to sleep, muscle soreness, almost a depressed feeling sometimes, and a few more. We have never had more joy in our life than right now and we are determined some stupid illness is not going to take that from us. We've got a lot to do in this world before we make our exit and we plan on fulfilling the will of God for our lives. Kat, I'll pray for Doug's surgery Tuesday. I'm going to ask God to provide wisdom for each and every person in that operating room along with every person that will be involved in his after care. God has many ways of healing us and I believe He sometimes uses people He can work through and that will listen to Him. He's got a special plan for you and I know you will live it out to it's fullest! Have an awesome Saturday and please know, you are not alone out there.. .:wub:

Paula
09-08-2007, 12:56 PM
I'll continue to think of and pray for all of you, Kat.

Minnie
09-08-2007, 02:03 PM
Continued prayers for a very successful operation and a more cooperative Doug.

Allifunn
09-08-2007, 02:38 PM
Thank you for sharing, Kat. I do not feel like any of us are strangers! You have a huge, wonderful & supportive family here! Most of us have met you & Doug...:wub: You all have been always gracious and kind (not to mention a darn fine host and chef!) I know it is hard for Doug to let go of the kitchen, believe me I know! I am glad that you found 2 good chefs to keep your fine restaurant going. With your strength and Doug's determination...all will be fine!
Prayers, good karma, and positive thoughts coming you way from all over the good ol' USA! :wave: :wub:( in all this you are included,and your own health!)

ItzKatzTime
09-08-2007, 02:47 PM
:wave: We are so blessed....thank you all! I go to run errands for Doug today. Trying to get the house "Husband" friendly.

It's answered prayer that he decided NOT to go into the cafe today and is resting....watching football.

You can't imagine the light you all have brought to me. I needed strength and God Bless everyone of you....I feel my mind and body healing as I speak. OL what a sweet thing to do....placing a picture of us on your monitor. Do you think you can stand looking at us that much????? I hope so!!!!

:bow: I LOVE YOU SOWALLERS NEAR AND FAR! :bow:

:wub: D & K:wub:

Allifunn
09-08-2007, 02:48 PM
Kat, it is amazing for you to keep such a wonderful and positive attitude! You are the one who blesses us with your shining example....:wub:

ItzKatzTime
09-09-2007, 05:12 AM
Kat, it is amazing for you to keep such a wonderful and positive attitude! You are the one who blesses us with your shining example....:wub:


Well, I better change my tar or everyone might think I'm about to fall over dead. When I chose "The Weeping Angel" it represented just how I felt. I was so tired and had cried so many tears. But after getting all these wonderful uplifting posts how could I dare weep.

I'm not worried or fearful.....but I would be lying if I said I wasn't concerned.
This last week we think Doug has developed a blood clot in a large artery in his leg. So we may be going to the emergency room tomorrow...or waiting for his Doctor's advice on Monday.:idontno: I'm keeping a close eye on him all night so he can get some sleep.

Doug and I are so blessed to have our staff at the Cafe....Thank You to Jamie (our partner, who we could not do it without him); Chris, Kelly, Natalia, Sarah and CR...our wait staff (the heart of the cafe); Sharon our part time hostess (who is wonderful and also a teacher at Seaside Neighborhood School); Olga (who works so hard in the front of the house with a smile always on her face); Jean (who keeps the kitchen spotless and is a best friend to Doug); Robert (Sous Chef....always in a good mood and makes me laugh); last but not least "the" Chef John Sallmon, who has been by Doug's side for the last three months soaking up the D&K concept like a sponge, and nailing it! Thank YOU for the prayers you have offered for them.

For two months everyone has been enjoying Chef John cooking Doug's recipes. Please continue to come in and enjoy dining with us. The one thing that makes Doug so ill is his concern that people will stop coming in while he's away. I assure you our team and myself will continue to offer you the best. I believe that by asking we recieve so I am not afraid to ask for your support during this time.

You are all soooo right....I AM not alone! I miss my mother and sister terribly...the ones I would rely on right now. But, I have been provided with so many to take their place. How will I ever repay you? I only can ask that you be blessed ten times what you have given to me and our family.

Good Night everyone.:wub: :bow: :wub:
Your forever friend....Kat

seaside2
09-09-2007, 08:34 AM
Prayers on top of prayers.

The love and cocern for you two from all Sowallers is fabulous, but nothing compared to God's love and compassion for you.

We will pray for you two, especially Doug now and all during his surgery.

I promise.
:wub: :wub: :wub:

Mango
09-09-2007, 10:05 AM
I'll be thinking of you and Doug as well as others on 9/11 Kat.
Good luck with the surgery and a quick recovery.

drunkkenartist
09-09-2007, 12:50 PM
Kat,

I never would have guessed, as you are always so vibrant and upbeat, even in your posts. Sending hugs and prayers your way! :wub:
Ditto! I have been so wrapped up in work, all this overtime, and computer issues, I've just fallen out of the loop! Keep up the good work of keeping up your spirits! I know it is hard work at times, but that in itself will help keep ya healthy! Smilng and Laughter really do work....
My friend and fellow artist that I do shows with, Sandy, has the FibroM, and I see her grin and bear it though I know it has got to be unbearable at times. We've done shows where she has to sit the whole time and customers bring the pieces to her for prices and background stories. It works for her. Then we'll get back to the hotel, she'll pop some pills and sleep till the next morning.
Again keep the faith and whatever else it takes to keep you going through the day. Remember that you are always surrounded by family, friends and fabulous energy. You are loved!:wub:

Kenny

ItzKatzTime
09-10-2007, 03:34 AM
A friend just sent this to me through e-mail.

It's the short version of the Serinity Prayer for those who can't remember it by heart.


I CAN'T DO IT
HE CAN
I THINK I'LL LET HIM!!


:wub: Thank You Nan!:wub:

LightWorker
09-10-2007, 02:20 PM
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/17/17_1_10.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxmk762YYUS) Kat, I feel so moved by the love you show. You are a blessing to us, and your family. I love you and am honored to call you friend. You asking for prayers shows how strong you really are.

ItzKatzTime
09-11-2007, 01:35 AM
Eight Hours and counting till Doug's Surgery! 8:00 a.m. at Fort Walton Medical.
He is very nervous. I am in an unatural state. I wish I
could do this for him.

My thanks go out to each and everyone of you for all that you have done. Many of you in your own hard times have reached out to me with unconditional love. Some I've never met....but how can you be a stranger on SoWal!

:wub: You are all so special to me.:wub:

Thanks to Janet Taylor and Angela McManus for taking Kalie into their homes and getting her to and from school over the next week. My heart rest easy knowing she is taken care of.

May we each have a beautiful day tomorrow, September 11th. My heart holds all your love and words you have sent to us.

I'll sleep for a little while, then we leave at 4:30 a.m.:eek:

I will be back!!!!:wub: :wave: :wub: Kat

Beachmom
09-11-2007, 01:38 AM
Kat-
Please keep us posted- our thoughts and prayers are with you and DKA tonight....:wub: :wub: :wub:
Al

LightWorker
09-11-2007, 02:28 AM
I thought of you so much today
I went to God in prayer,
To ask Him to watch over you
And show you that I care.My prayer for you was not for rewards
That you could touch or feel,
But true rewards for happiness
That are so very real.Like love and understanding
In all the things you do,
And guidance when you need it most
To see your troubles through.I asked Him for good health for you
So your future could be bright,
And faith to accept life's challenges
And the courage to do what's right.I gave thanks to Him
For granting my prayer
To bring you peace and love.
May you feel the warmth in your life
With God's blessings from above

Ocean Lover
09-11-2007, 08:28 AM
Thinking of you both and praying all goes well....God bless.

Miss Kitty
09-11-2007, 08:31 AM
You are all in my thoughts and prayers today, Kat.

ThirtyAGal
09-11-2007, 08:51 AM
:wub: Kat - Prayers are coming your way. Please let us know how Doug's surgery goes. God Bless You, both.

ShallowsNole
09-11-2007, 09:14 AM
Thinking of Doug, and you, now...

LightWorker
09-11-2007, 04:26 PM
Thinking of Doug, and you, now...



Yes we are.

Minnie
09-11-2007, 05:08 PM
Prayers for Doug and Kat.

seaside2
09-11-2007, 06:01 PM
Anybody have a word on Doug?:idontno:

Anxious to hear.

ozbeachmom
09-11-2007, 06:05 PM
Prayers and thoughts of both of you today. Hope all went well for Doug.

Miss Kitty
09-11-2007, 07:32 PM
Anybody have a word on Doug?:idontno:

Anxious to hear.

Me, too.

LightWorker
09-11-2007, 07:51 PM
Me, too.



Me three....

savvytangerine
09-11-2007, 08:51 PM
I've been thinking about you, Doug and DKA's mom all day. :wub:

Much love to you and your's.

organicmama
09-11-2007, 09:16 PM
:wub: Kat,

I have been offline regarding SoWal for the last couple of months and just wanted to chime in. Obviously, it was an important day to do so. I pray that Doug's surgery went extremely well and that he is resting and beginning his recovery now.

My SIL has spinal stenosis, so I understand completely what is going on.

For both of you, I am sending my love, thoughts & prayers of healing & peace. I have not met you in person but I know that your soul is beautiful from all your lovely posts.

God Bless.

Love & Light.:wub:

jdarg
09-12-2007, 07:02 AM
Hey- any news about Doug & Kathy? We need an update! I don't know if Kat has computer access or not?

ItzKatzTime
09-12-2007, 09:28 AM
Hey- any news about Doug & Kathy? We need an update! I don't know if Kat has computer access or not?

:wave: Good Morning My Friends!

First I must thank all of you for your prayers and thoughts. YOU kept us strong. Minnie found me in the surgery waiting room and made my day by calling me. How funny to be sitting there with everyone and hear, "Is there a Kat in here"? I answered the phone and heard the voice of a SoWaller. It was so comforting and took the edge off! Thank you Minnie!!!!!

It's been a long 24 hours. The Doctor said Doug's surgery was more involved then he thought. What was supposed to take 2 hours took 4. You can imagine my thoughts as we entered hour 3 and 1/2 with no word. I won't go into a lot of details except to say the "cushion" between C 6-7 was no longer herniated it had burst! Fragments of it were stuck in his spinal cord and nerves. He had to pull out each fragment and do a major clean up in addition to the expected procedures. Doug is extremely uncomfortable and did not come out of the anesthesia easily. He has been sedated and as of this morning HAS NOT sat up or walked yet....which is really bothering me.

Waiting for the Doctor to come in this morning and will get back to everyone as soon as I can.

:wub: Kat

ThirtyAGal
09-12-2007, 09:44 AM
:wave: Thank you, Kat, for the update. Please let us know what the doctor says, and how Doug is doing today. Still praying!

Cheering472
09-12-2007, 10:22 AM
Praying hard Kat. Take care sweet girl and keep us posted. We are thinking of you.:wub:

steele mama
09-12-2007, 10:36 AM
I've been thinking about you, Doug and DKA's mom all day. :wub:

Much love to you and your's.
Here, here. I willl continue to pray for Doug's recovery.

Ocean Lover
09-12-2007, 10:40 AM
Thanks for the update Kat...step up the prayers everyone!!!

ShallowsNole
09-12-2007, 10:50 AM
Prayers stepped up over here. Love you Kat -

tistheseason
09-12-2007, 11:07 AM
Kat - thanks for the update. I hate to hear that it was more involved. I'll check back later today to see if there is better news. But I'll be thinking of (and praying for) both of you today!

organicmama
09-12-2007, 12:27 PM
Doug & Kat, hang in there. Just know that we all love you and it's gonna be alright.

Love & Light to you both!

ItzKatzTime
09-12-2007, 03:23 PM
Short Note.....HE'S COMING HOME TODAY!:clap: :clap:

:bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow: :wub:

LOVE TO YOU ALL!

I'll be back later!!!!!:clap: :clap: :biggrin: Kat

Cheering472
09-12-2007, 03:35 PM
:clap: :clap: :clap: Wonderful! :clap: :clap: :clap:

LightWorker
09-12-2007, 03:45 PM
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Sooo good!!!!

gotothebeachmom
09-12-2007, 03:53 PM
Fabulous news! Recoup is always better and faster when you are at home! The best to you and yours. Keep those updates coming! :wave:

Minnie
09-12-2007, 10:28 PM
Lots of prayers for continued good news and a great recovery. :wub:

Miss Kitty
09-12-2007, 10:44 PM
WOW!!! :clap: Life is good. :wave:

Johnrudy
09-12-2007, 11:16 PM
:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:
:wub:

ozbeachmom
09-12-2007, 11:21 PM
Good Wishes and Prayers to you both from the land of OZ.

Allifunn
09-12-2007, 11:24 PM
Short Note.....HE'S COMING HOME TODAY!:clap: :clap:




:bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow: :wub: :bow:

LOVE TO YOU ALL!


I'll be back later!!!!!:clap: :clap: :biggrin: Kat

:clap: :clap: :clap: :wub: :wub: :wub: Please let us know...and remember...we love you both!!!!!

DD
09-12-2007, 11:26 PM
:clap: Still thinking of you both.

jdarg
09-12-2007, 11:27 PM
Hey Kat!!!:wave: Glad y'all are doing well and heading home....

You need to hook up Doug to SoWal while he is recuperating! Maybe he will take pain pill and post the seafood dip recipe!!:biggrin: :wub:

Mango
09-13-2007, 01:00 AM
This is wonderful news Kat.:wave: I thought of you both yesterday.

NoHall
09-13-2007, 01:01 AM
Yay...still praying!

TooFarTampa
09-13-2007, 01:14 AM
:clap: :clap: :clap:

iwishiwasthere
09-13-2007, 07:11 AM
Glad he is coming home and am trusting that his recovery will be quick! Hang in there and take care of yourself during this time.. I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer.

ThirtyAGal
09-13-2007, 09:25 AM
Maybe he will take pain pill and post the seafood dip recipe!!:biggrin: :wub:

:lolabove: jdarq you should be ashamed, thinking about yourself (but that is a great thought).

Kat and Doug - Glad you are going to be at home. Keep us posted on recovery, and Kat you take care of yourself too. :wub:

Allifunn
09-13-2007, 09:28 AM
Kat and Doug - Glad you are going to be at home. Keep us posted on recovery, and Kat you take care of yourself too. :wub:
Yes! Please keep us up dated!:wub:

seaside2
09-13-2007, 10:22 AM
Great day in the morning!!

When he starts getting crabby, you know he's getting well!!!:clap: :clap:

ItzKatzTime
09-13-2007, 02:06 PM
OMG I'm almost too exhausted to post! Here's a quick update. I LOVE YOU ALL! YOUR PRAYERS HAVE KEPT ME GOING!!!!!

Doug is walking some and is very weak. This morning he is eating grits and soft eggs! Now I know he's on the road to recovery! He's hungry and demanding. Like having a little baby again.:wub: Well, not quite.

He can't go to the cafe for two weeks :funn: yea, right and can't drive for three. It will take at least a year to tell if he will get some of the damage that's been done to nerve endings back....and his muscle regained. The disc damage to C 6-7 affects his whole right side. Physical therapy will start in about 4-6 weeks.

This surgery is usually not so problematic if you have it done soon after being diagnosed. Doug has had this problem for 10 years.....first he couldn't jump, then run....and over the years walking has become so painful. His right arm about 3 years ago began to bother him with numbness, tingling, and muscle deterioration. I honestly don't know how he's cooked this long.
Sheer determination and hard headedness...of course now he sees that it was not the right thing to do. I only share this with you in case you know of someone going through similar problems....tell them not to wait!

I want to thank all of you for supporting us at the cafe while we are not there it means the world to us....Our partner, The Shadowman is taking care of everything. He likes to stay in the shadows, but believe me we could not do it without him. And, our staff is more then wonderful....we are so blessed!

Well, my Sowal friends that's a long update. I miss the cafe.....sigh.

Bless you all,
:wave: :wub: Kat

NoHall
09-13-2007, 02:26 PM
Y'all are a really pretty pair of people, by the way...

Your cafe is next on my list of places I have to visit when I come back down there.

Speedy recovery...

Biff
09-13-2007, 05:48 PM
DITTO!!!!:D


Y'all are a really pretty pair of people, by the way...

Your cafe is next on my list of places I have to visit when I come back down there.

Speedy recovery...

Miss Kitty
09-13-2007, 06:00 PM
Thanks for the update, Kat. Please take care of yourself as well as you take care of everyone else! (well, maybe a fraction would be possible ;-) )

Johnrudy
09-13-2007, 07:23 PM
:clap::clap:

Allifunn
09-13-2007, 08:56 PM
Speedy recovery wishes for Doug...if he is hard headded enough to tough it out for 10 years...he will be tough enough to make a great recovery!
HOW ARE YOU doing??? :wub: :wave:

ItzKatzTime
09-14-2007, 01:50 AM
Speedy recovery wishes for Doug...if he is hard headded enough to tough it out for 10 years...he will be tough enough to make a great recovery!
HOW ARE YOU doing??? :wub: :wave:

:wave: Allifunn I'm ready for a Week or Two Spa Vacation....by myself! The stress leading up to the surgery, going through the surgery and recovery room, and finally getting him home without a wheelchair has me rethinking my own health!!!!

Thanks for asking....when will you be back?:idontno: We need to do lunch!
:wub: :wub: Kat

jdarg
09-14-2007, 07:12 AM
Home without a wheelchair- excellent news!!!!:clap:

gotothebeachmom
09-14-2007, 08:35 AM
Kat, I am so glad to read that Doug is well on his way to recovery. I think a spa vacation sounds like it's just the ticket for you. Take care and I'll continue to keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers.

kathydwells
09-14-2007, 08:37 AM
Kat, I am very happy to hear that Doug is home and recuperating. I hope and pray that he will continue to heal. Thank you for keeping us updated. :wub:

Johnrudy
09-14-2007, 08:46 AM
Kat, Please make sure to take care of yourself too. Let others pamper you when offered. :wave:

jackie
09-14-2007, 09:31 AM
:D Hello,
I really hesitated to post on this thread since I don't know you two at all except thru this site. I just wanted to let you know that I'm keeping you in my prayers and will pray for a speedy and complete recovery. Also will pray that your man will learn to pace himself in his passion for his work! Take care of yourself as well since you've prob been living on nerves and stress during all of this and now will have that let down feeling take over.
We spend the winters in sowal and can't wait to meet you and dine at D & K's! . I so enjoy your posts and updates!

Allifunn
09-14-2007, 09:49 AM
Take care of youself, Girl! A spa week...sounds like the ticket for you, when time and circumstances permit!
I'll be back Oct. 12th - 14th for the Ho-Down. Short visit...but I hope to see you! :wub: :wave:

ThirtyAGal
09-14-2007, 10:13 AM
Take care of youself, Girl! A spa week...sounds like the ticket for you, when time and circumstances permit!
I'll be back Oct. 12th - 14th for the Ho-Down. Short visit...but I hope to see you! :wub: :wave:
:idontno: What Ho-Down? Maybe I missed a thread.
Kat I pray that your family is doing well, and that things will look up soon.

LightWorker
09-16-2007, 01:11 AM
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/13/13_1_209.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxmk762YYUS)Kat, I hope Doug is feeling stronger every day!!


:wub:

Paula
09-16-2007, 11:26 AM
Kat: I'm so glad that the surgery went well and that Doug is on the road to recovery. Allifunn was good to ask how YOU are doing. I feel I need a spa week and I don't even have the stresses you have right now. So, you definitely need at least a long weekend at a spa once Doug is back on his feet!

Tootsie
09-16-2007, 02:14 PM
:wave: hello kat and doug. sending you wishes for an excellent recovery... doug - please be patient, take it easy and do just as the doc says!!!

kat - we're thinking of you both. hang in there. :wub:

ItzKatzTime
09-17-2007, 02:04 AM
Thank you ....I know he's getting better as he's getting grumpy!:funn: :yikes:


Ut Ohhhh time for an "in house nurse"!!!! I need to get back to work.:clap:

Doug---->:breakcomp:

Kat------>:whack:

Miss Kitty
09-17-2007, 07:44 AM
:floor: ...oh Kat, that was too funny! Glad to hear Doug is mending!

seacrestkristi
09-17-2007, 09:30 AM
:lolabove: :lolabove: :funn:

ItzKatzTime
09-19-2007, 11:04 AM
Today I'm driving Doug for his first check up with Dr. Johns. It's been 9 days and he seems to be doing much better with his throat and eating. His lower back is killing him and he's in pain with that all day and night. We know from the MRI that he has a disc in his lumbar region that has herniated....now we wait to see if he will have to go through another surgery for that one. I just wonder sometimes if this will go on forever.

I really feel the check up will go good. He just needs to be patient and heal.
So please keep him in your prayers.

:wub: LOVE YOU ALL! :wub:
Kat:drink2:

Harriet
09-19-2007, 11:55 AM
Lexapro and flexeril, my hero's

ItzKatzTime
09-19-2007, 05:24 PM
Lexapro and flexeril, my hero's

:welcome: Harriet

Thanks for that info. Who needs it me or Doug? :idontno:

:lolabove:

:wave: Kat;-)

Harriet
09-19-2007, 05:47 PM
sorry it took sooooooo long.
you need the lexapro to deal with him and you need the flexiril to deal with fibromyalgia and cfs. I hope it helps you like it does me. If I miss one dose I'm back to PAIN AND AGONY. Take the Lexapro in the Morn. and the Flexiril 30min b-4 bed. Both are prescriptions. Hope you feel like you were when you where 12. Love ya.

ItzKatzTime
09-21-2007, 06:13 PM
It's been a few days since I last posted. I think I was taking Doug to the Doctors. What day is this:idontno: It's just been soooo busy around our house. I feel like Cinderella....if you get my drift.

Cinderella...The Work Song
Cinderella, Cinderella
All I hear is Cinderella, from the moment I get up
till shades of night are falling
There isn't any letup, I hear them calling, calling
Go up and do the attic and go down and do the cellar, you can do them
both together
"Cinderella."

How lovely it would be
if I could live in my fantasy
But in the middle of my dreaming
they're screaming
at me
Cinderella


Every time she'd find a minute
That's the time that they begin it
Cinderelly, Cinderelly

Cinderella!

Cinderelly, Cinderelly
Night and day it's Cinderelly
Make the fire, fix the breakfast
Wash the dishes, do the mopping

And the sweeping and the dusting
They always keep her hopping


She goes around in circles
Till she's very, very dizzy
Still they holler

So, back to the Doctor visit for Doug....it went well. He's doing quite good. He just needs to be patient. His back his killing him, but he has meds for that.:blink: He won't be driving for another week and a half. And he can go back to work around the middle of October...maybe. So if you see him before that at the cafe, just kick his B*U*T*T out of there!

He starts physical thereapy in another three weeks. I actually thought I needed your prayers before and during the surgery BUT I NEED THEM MORE NOW!!!!:blush:

I shouldn't moan...I am so blessed. I received a beautiful candle by Archipelago from our new SoWal friend....Minnie. She surprised me with it. :clap: :wub: and, of course it came from a favorite store of mine~~ Patchoulis.:clap: It has the most delicious aroma....called "FIJI"....Coconut, Sugar Cane, and Lemon Leaf.

ENOUGH! :chill: I'm going to get some read a new book while Doug sleeps. Can you guess which book it is?:scratch:

Thanks to each and every one of you....you can catch me these days out mulching the flower beds....getting ready for fall.

:wub: :wave: :drink2: Kat

LightWorker
09-21-2007, 08:47 PM
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Better Kat

ItzKatzTime
09-24-2007, 05:04 AM
sorry it took sooooooo long.
you need the lexapro to deal with him and you need the flexiril to deal with fibromyalgia and cfs. I hope it helps you like it does me. If I miss one dose I'm back to PAIN AND AGONY. Take the Lexapro in the Morn. and the Flexiril 30min b-4 bed. Both are prescriptions. Hope you feel like you were when you where 12. Love ya.

:clap: Thanks for the info Harriet...I will ask my Doctor about the flexiril. I also have a friend taking Flexiril...hers are 10mg. She has a terrible time with back pain and is now starting to have pain in her legs like restless leg syndrome. What mg. are yours? I hate it. I feel as young as I was 20 years ago, but then I'll have a day or days when I can hardly stand it. Stress related!!!!

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LW~I love how you think! You nailed me.:rolling: Thanks for all your cheery little notes.;-)

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Better Kat with no stress!

30A Skunkape
09-24-2007, 10:22 AM
A word to the wise-flexaril (cyclobenzaprine) is a muscle relaxer that is a potent hypnotic. It is not intended to be used as a sleep aid, nor do I think it is a good idea to use it for anything other than very short term select situations, ie, acute muscle strain or spasm. If one truly needs a pharmacological sleep aid, there are several superior options and those should be used only after non-pharmacological options have been exhausted. :wave:

NoHall
09-24-2007, 10:24 AM
A word to the wise-flexaril (cyclobenzaprine) is a muscle relaxer that is a potent hypnotic. It is not intended to be used as a sleep aid, nor do I think it is a good idea to use it for anything other than very short term select situations, ie, acute muscle strain or spasm. If one truly needs a pharmacological sleep aid, there are several superior options and those should be used only after non-pharmacological options have been exhausted. :wave:

WHOO-HOO!!!

Can I get a prescription?

30A Skunkape
09-24-2007, 10:26 AM
WHOO-HOO!!!

Can I get a prescription?


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Johnrudy
09-24-2007, 10:28 AM
A word to the wise-flexaril (cyclobenzaprine) is a muscle relaxer that is a potent hypnotic. It is not intended to be used as a sleep aid, nor do I think it is a good idea to use it for anything other than very short term select situations, ie, acute muscle strain or spasm. If one truly needs a pharmacological sleep aid, there are several superior options and those should be used only after non-pharmacological options have been exhausted. :wave:
Thanks Dr. Skunky for responding re: this particular post. I was curious myself. I'm always interested in hearing about others' pain management.

My rheumatologist has prescribed for me methotrexate. Not quite sure that it's doing much but she said it would take approx. 6 weeks. These chunks of 6-8 weeks of trying different prescriptions is driving me crazy.

Oh well, moving on...

NoHall
09-24-2007, 10:31 AM
:nono1: :nono1: :nono1: :banned: :banging: :whack: :cuss:


Actually, a few years ago I took something that my Dad had because I had a shoulder out of whack and couldn't sleep. He said that it didn't really do anything to him at all, but I still just took one before bed.

I called my mom at midnight because I was having hallucinations. I slept for the next 36 hours--I would try to get up and just conk out again.

Not funn. I don't recommend it.

ItzKatzTime
09-26-2007, 12:31 AM
A word to the wise-flexaril (cyclobenzaprine) is a muscle relaxer that is a potent hypnotic. It is not intended to be used as a sleep aid, nor do I think it is a good idea to use it for anything other than very short term select situations, ie, acute muscle strain or spasm. If one truly needs a pharmacological sleep aid, there are several superior options and those should be used only after non-pharmacological options have been exhausted. :wave:

Thanks Skunky......I copied your post so I can talk to my Dr. about my insomnia and CFS problem. Do Not want to take anything that would potentally be a hypnotic. :yikes:

Tootsie
09-26-2007, 03:39 PM
hi kat!:wave: we're thinking of you both! get well Dougie-baby!

ItzKatzTime
09-26-2007, 06:07 PM
:bang: :blink: :idontno: Please keep the prayers coming. Doug's back, near the lower hip area, is giving him so much pain he can't sleep, cannot find a comfortable position to sit or lie on, and he is really depressed about it.


There are others out there that need our prayer too, but I am not at liberty to post their names. Just a short thought would be great!

:bow: Thank you my SoWal friends!!!!:bow:

:banned: PAIN :banned:

LightWorker
10-01-2007, 01:37 AM
:bang: :blink: :idontno: Please keep the prayers coming. Doug's back, near the lower hip area, is giving him so much pain he can't sleep, cannot find a comfortable position to sit or lie on, and he is really depressed about it.


There are others out there that need our prayer too, but I am not at liberty to post their names. Just a short thought would be great!

:bow: Thank you my SoWal friends!!!!:bow:





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ShallowsNole
10-01-2007, 12:06 PM
Oh Kat - I am sorry to hear that Doug's pain is so miserable. I am not a doctor, but hopefully there is something that can be done to get him some relief, quickly, while the causes and treatment can be planned rationally. More {{{hugs}}}

ItzKatzTime
10-11-2007, 02:29 AM
Oh Kat - I am sorry to hear that Doug's pain is so miserable. I am not a doctor, but hopefully there is something that can be done to get him some relief, quickly, while the causes and treatment can be planned rationally. More {{{hugs}}}

Thanks so much SN....looks like another MRI. The shot has not helped. He at least is able to work at the cafe now for about 4 hours a day. This helps him....as he misses being in that kitchen!

Paula
10-11-2007, 07:12 AM
Dear Katz: Sorry to hear Doug's back problem just isn't going away. I hope something works soon. It sounds very tough. Would acupuncture ease the pain at all?

montgomery30
10-12-2007, 02:34 PM
First time reading this blog. Kat, I am thinking about you and Doug. I know when someone is sick the care giver needs so much suport. You never realize that till you are in that situation and you are exhausted. I really hope things start to really improve, God knows you deserve it!! Keep you head high and remember things will get better... You are in my prayers too!

Hope Dougs gets better as well... Thinking of you!!!

ItzKatzTime
10-13-2007, 03:01 PM
First time reading this blog. Kat, I am thinking about you and Doug. I know when someone